Witnessing a disagreement in the family

Discussion in 'Family' started by Corzhens, Oct 7, 2019.

  1. Corzhens

    Corzhens Member

    If you are not directly involved in an argument between 2 members of the family, the best thing to do is to leave the scene. If that cannot be done then keep quiet and as much as possible don’t take sides when asked for your opinion. Especially when the parents are quarreling, not a word should be heard from you. Never ever try to pacify them because a peacemaker is not welcome in the family.
     
  2. Alexandoy

    Alexandoy Member

    In any family, it is not rare to have a disagreement or even a heated argument. As what the old folks say, stay clear of any conflict. If you need to leave temporarily then do so. It is not good to stay in the battlefield for you may get involved. If your spouse is the one in the battle then it is wise to pacify your spouse to end the trouble.
     
  3. Corzhens

    Corzhens Member

    Old folks would say that the best way to win an argument is to not start it or to avoid it. When there is a brewing issue that could lead to an argument, it is better to change the topic. But if the other party would be insistent like there is a grudge behind it, the best move is to leave in a graceful exit.